I’ve found myself thinking about balance a lot lately. What it is, how to achieve it, and why I should want to achieve it. Among women, and mothers in particular, balance is a sort of holy grail. Just read any interview of any successful woman, basically ever, and you’ll see the following question, “How do you do it all? How do you achieve (dun dun dun…) balance?” Normally, the answer will be some kind of vague murmuring about making the time for things that are important to you and letting go of the rest (as if laundry can be let go forever), or maybe something about self-care (which usually means going to get a pedicure once a month or something). But there’s a big problem, for me, when it comes to balance. Namely, that’s it unachievable.
It’s been a long time since we’ve done a good, old-fashioned check in around here (like… before Christmas?!), so here we go. Continue reading
If you’re a woman with a few kids in a certain age range, you know that you can’t go anywhere in public (but specifically grocery stores, Target, or a library), without someone coming up to you and saying, “Enjoy every moment. It goes by too fast.” Depending on your mood, you may or may not want to throw some choice words their way, hand them your neediest child, and book it to the nearest Starbucks. Personally, I always try to be gracious to people who say this, because I know it’s true- these years with my children are precious, and I know that’s what they’re getting at. Continue reading
Everything has felt so big in the world lately. Even as I’ve tried to turn off the noise of the news and social media, it’s proven impossible. The injustice and sadness and unfairness of the world has seemed so overwhelming and incomprehensible in their scope. And of course I have opinions on some of these things. But they’re complicated, and my opinions don’t seem to come close to touching the the immensity of our problems. Nothing I say or write will temper it, and in most cases, I think it would only add to the cacophony. Continue reading
Hi. It’s been a while since I’ve done a general life update over here, so let’s get to it, shall we? Continue reading
Saturday mornings are sort of a toss-up around here. Some days, mommy (that’s me) wakes up well-rested (rarely) or at least less zombie-ish than usual (more likely), gets to drink her coffee in peace as the kids play and watch too much Daniel Tiger. Once we’re all sufficiently woken up and hungry, my pleasant, homemaking alter ego says, “Shall we make pancakes? Or waffles? Let’s make bacon, too!” And then she lets the kids HELP and everyone eats heaps of delicious breakfast food and says please and thank you and we are ready to start our day.
And then, there are those days that mommy just gives the kids cheese sticks while they watch Sponge Bob. Continue reading
And just like that, November is drawing to a close. When I decided that I wouldn’t buy anything for the entire month of November, I admit it was mostly just a reaction to the plethora of stuff in my house, and the overwhelming commercialism of the upcoming holiday season. I wasn’t sure how it would go, or how I would feel about it when it was all said and done. Some of the results of a month-long kibosh on spending were as you’d expect, while others really surprised me. In a nutshell, here are my takeaways from Buy Nothing November: Continue reading
Thanksgiving’s tomorrow and you still don’t have the perfect recipe for green bean casserole? How about pie? Well, lucky for you your favorite mom blogger (just kidding, it’s me) used to be a food blogger and spent a WHOLE lotta time finding the best of the best recipes for Thanksgiving. These are some of my absolute favorite, crowd-pleasing recipes. You know, just in case you’re not totally prepared yet. Continue reading
I’ve not bought a single thing for 3 weeks now. I’m still alive. I’m not particularly suffering. Continue reading
First of all, a bit of news! This here link-up is moving! Alicia at Sweeping Up Joy will be hosting the link-up over there from now on. I’ll still be sharing my library finds and linking up there, but if you want to join in (and I hope you do, we have so much fun!), you’ll just be linking up over there instead of here. Easy peasy lemon squeezy.
So, if you thought we got a lot of library books before, you’d be well and truly shocked at how many library books etc. we check out when the weather turns colder. It’s a lot. Nothing better than snuggling up on the couch with all your little peeps (or without) and diving into a big pile of fresh library books. We got a HUGE pile this week, but for some reason, I wasn’t feeling super excited about many of them. You win some, you lose some. There were a couple of standouts, though.
Joseph Had A Little Overcoat – Such a great book. Very simple story, but my kids loved it and the illustrations were phenomenal and the pages were die cut to show how Joseph’s overcoat gets smaller and smaller with each incarnation. AND my kids thought it was pretty funny when I tried to play the accompanying song on the piano and sing along. Terrible singing voice and piano playing optional. Continue reading